1. Are you married already?
2. Why?
3. When are you getting married?
4. Do you have any plans?
5. What are you waiting for?
6. But are you dating?
All these questions and more... with extra toppings on the side. I wish i have all the answers! Why are you not getting married yet? You're not getting any younger! Emphasis on not getting any younger. So as not to be questioned any further, all it takes, is for me to smile and say soon. Duhhh! As if! Should i say otherwise, i will be bombarded with lots and lots of other questions forcing me to agree that being single is pathetic and sad. I'm not at all pathetic and sad. It's just that my fate has a different story. I might get married or i may not. Who knows? Getting a husband is not as easy as choosing a dress from stores. Oppps, choosing a dress is even an ordeal sometimes, let alone a husband? The person you will be with for the rest of your life for crying out loud!
Last weekend was one of those moments i dread to deal with. I heard from my cousin-in-law that my nephew and my highschool friend's son are classmates. I texted my classmate, nice to know that she still had the same number. I told her that your son is the classmate of my nephew and blah blah blah. She replied and asked me how was i doing? I simply said, i was doing fine. She got the impression that i'm still single, the same thing she last heard since the last time she heard from me (haha!). I was really anticipating for the famous "why are you not married yet?" To my relief, she just replied "ayaw sa dalidali minyo ha? Nindot ang dalaga, wala hunahunaon." (Don't hurry and get married. It's nice to be single. Nothing much to worry about.) Thank heavens! I was relieved. I need not explain myself for the nth time to some people who doesn't seem to understand the single ones. Well, my highschool friend's relationship didn't last so well. She broke up with her husband. What she said to me must be coming from personal experiences or frustrations. She even must be just joking when she said it. Whatever it is, i was thankful, i just heard another tale on the stance of being single.
Don't get me wrong. I would love to someday get hitched. Rear my own family. Be a dutiful wife and loving mother. To whom and when? Let's wait for the answer together...