"Every problem is an opportunity to trust God. Christ must be at the center of your relationships because He provides a stable, fixed point of reference; otherwise, your relationships will be frail and fragile."
Sunday, September 28, 2008
quotes unlimited #6
"Every problem is an opportunity to trust God. Christ must be at the center of your relationships because He provides a stable, fixed point of reference; otherwise, your relationships will be frail and fragile."
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grilled food and the beach...
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i want a laptop!
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Wednesday, September 24, 2008
auto financing
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movies and me #1
Carlo: Where is it?
Vivian: We are almost there now. It's not far from here.
Carlo: Can you go alone in dark?
Vivian: Are you going to walk me home if i can't?
Carlo: If you want me to.
Vivian: Do you know what? Girls often dream about this... where she feels like a withered flower surrounded by all these fabulous people and out of nowhere, this prince on a white horse calls her name, holds her shoulder and gently touches her hair. And walk her home. But that is too perfect. I'll be going. I am really thankful for today. I really am.
Dialogue of Vivian and Martin in the Koreanovela, Lovers in Paris. I shed a tear in this part. I don't know. It's probably because it somehow resonates what i am truly from the inside. I may come off an independent and self sufficient woman but a part of me will and always will look for that certain warmth of being taken cared of.
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Labels: blahs, Korean Series, Lovers in Paris, movies
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
who wants a vacation?
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personalized stuff
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unpredictable weather
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babies and baptisms
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Monday, September 22, 2008
quotes unlimited #5
"There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure." — Paulo Coelho
But who is not afraid to fail? Not even the slightest hint of fear?
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Wednesday, September 17, 2008
unwritten thoughts
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Friday, September 12, 2008
on insurances
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Thursday, September 11, 2008
clothing fanatic
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Wednesday, September 10, 2008
quotes unlimited #4
"We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation.
It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path." - Paulo Coelho
Oh, just another wonderful line from Coelho :)
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annoying coworkers
Nearly every workplace has them: the Naysayer, who dismisses team members' ideas; the Spotlight Stealer, who claims credit for a colleague's efforts; and other annoying coworkers who make collaboration difficult. Following are six professionals whose irritating behaviors and irksome attitudes prevent them from forming productive relationships at work -- and what you should to do avoid following in their footsteps:
1. The Naysayer. This office dweller delights in shooting down ideas. Even during "blue sky" brainstorming sessions, where all suggestions are to be contemplated with an open mind, the Naysayer immediately pooh-poohs any proposal that challenges the status quo.
The right approach: Because great solutions often rise from diverse opinions, withhold comment -- and judgment -- until the appropriate time. Moreover, be tactful and constructive when delivering criticism or alternative viewpoints.
2. The Spotlight Stealer. There is definitely an "I" in "team" according to this glory seeker, who tries to take full credit for collaborative efforts and impress higher-ups. This overly ambitious corporate climber never heard a good idea he wouldn't pass off as his own.
The right approach: Win over the boss and colleagues by being a team player. When receiving kudos, for instance, publicly thank everyone who helped you. "I couldn't have done it without ..." is a savvy phrase to remember.
3. The Buzzwordsmith. Whether speaking or writing, the Buzzwordsmith sacrifices clarity in favor of showcasing an expansive vocabulary of cliched business terms. This ineffective communicator loves to "utilize" -- never just "use" -- industry-specific jargon and obscure acronyms that muddle messages. Favorite buzzwords include "synergistic," "actionable," "monetize," and "paradigm shift."
The right approach: Be succinct. Focus on clarity and minimize misunderstandings by favoring direct, concrete statements. If you're unsure whether the person you are communicating with will understand your message, rephrase it, using "plain English."
4. The Inconsiderate Emailer. Addicted to the "reply all" function, this "cc" supporter clogs colleagues' already-overflowing inboxes with unnecessary messages. This person also marks less-than-critical emails as "high priority" and sends enormous attachments that crash unwitting recipients' computers.
The right approach: Break the habit of using email as your default mode of communication, as many conversations are better suited for quick phone calls or in-person discussions. The benefit? The less email you send, the less you're likely to receive.
5. The Interrupter. The Interrupter has little regard for others' peace, quiet or concentration. When this person is not entering your work area to request immediate help, the Interrupter is in meetings loudly tapping on a laptop, fielding calls on a cell phone, or initiating off-topic side conversations.
The right approach: Don't let competing demands and tight deadlines trump basic common courtesy. Simply put, mind your manners to build healthy relationships at work.
6. The Stick in the Mud. This person is all business all of the time. Disapproving of any attempt at levity, the constant killjoy doesn't have fun at work and doesn't think anyone else should either.
The right approach: Have a sense of humor and don't be afraid to laugh at yourself once in awhile. A good laugh can help you build rapport, boost morale, and deflate tension when working under stressful situations.
It's fairly easy to spot the qualities that make the above individuals irritating -- at least when the behaviors are displayed by others. It can be a challenge to recognize when you exhibit them yourself. You may not realize, for instance, that you always pepper your communications with industry- or company-specific jargon, even when speaking with new employees or outside contacts. Though you may not be a full-fledged Interrupter or Stick in the Mud, take care to avoid heading down their paths.
The best advice: Remember common courtesy and act toward others as you want them to act toward you.
*Got this from a forwarded mail and i thought it's worth sharing. I'm probably the Inconsiderate Emailer type. hehe! :P
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Monday, September 8, 2008
knickknacks collector
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Thursday, September 4, 2008
me? a glutton? not really
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detoxify
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Wednesday, September 3, 2008
What's True Love?
• What does true love mean to you?
==> it is accepting the person regardless of his flaws and imperfections
• How do you know you’re really in love?
==> when the other person's happiness nor sadness is my care
• How many times in your life have you fallen in love?
==> not telling :P
• Have you ever fallen out of true love because you were mad at the moment?
==> no
• Do you feel love and physical attraction is the same thing?
==> no, pyhsical attraction may come first, then love
• If your true love became ill or disfigured would you continue to love the same way?
== sure why not, if he lets me
• Should anyone else be able to tell you who to love or not love?
==> opinions in some ways matter, but ultimately i'm the one who gets to decide
• Would you do anything for love?
==> yes, but human as i am, i have my limitations
Anyone interested, just go grab this tag :)
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Tuesday, September 2, 2008
world wide employees
I often wonder this. What would happen if by any chance i get to hit the wrong button and send an email to the World Wide Employees addy? Worst, a personal email at that? Or what would happen if i would just intentionally send an email to WWE? Perhaps, just for the sake of ending my wondering and getting some answers.
1. Will L*** fire me?
2. Will i undergo a one on one discussion with the HR Manager (probably question my integrity?) nor the IT Manager (abuse of company resource)?
3. Will the rest of the L*** employees think that i'm cool? or maybe fool?
4. Will the rest of the L*** employees read my email or plainly ignore it?
5. Will i become FAMOUS?
What do you think? :P
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Monday, September 1, 2008
i adore candles
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unrealized weekend getaway
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